Sometimes you want to have sex standing up, other times you want to lie back and let your partner work their magic. On other occasions, you want to try a kinky position , or one that lets your partner go really really deep. Then there are those times when you just want all the control. When those dominant feels strikes, there's just one course of action to take: get on top. Note: While many of these directions reference "you" as the receiving partner, these positions can be assumed by just about anyone. How to: Your partner sits on a chair or the edge of the bed; you face toward him, seated on his lap. Why it's great: From this position, you're totally in control of the angle and depth. Plus, your hands are percent free to do as they please—whether it's show your clit some love or get fun and handsy with your partner. How to: Your partner lies down, and you kneel on top. Push off your partner's chest and slide up and down the thighs.
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Takeaway: Sex is sexy at any size, but some positions work better than others. Despite what you may have been led to believe, sex is sexy at any size. When you flip through a sex position book, though, you may find yourself feeling a bit disappointed if you have some extra weight on your frame. Many sex position suggestions were designed for the athletically-bodied. In fact, a lot of average people can't even do them! When either you or your partner have a larger body, you may need to be creative in order to find sex positions that allow for deep, intimate penetration. You may feel like being lazy, or you may feel like giving it your all.
I think we can all agree that sex is awesome, right? Be it a casual encounter with a near stranger or the intimate connection that comes from having sex with your long-term romantic partner, an orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm. And one of the keys to having the best orgasms ever is to feel completely comfortable in your own skin.