I first wondered about how to prepare for anal sex when I was in college. I was 21, an age when everything is sort of do-or-die, especially regarding love. I had a couple of friends who had tried anal sex, but I judged them ruthlessly for it. Anal sex was something I decided I would just never, ever do.
9 Pro Tips to Prep Your Body For Anal Sex
1. You should probably start with a finger or two.
Skip navigation! Story from Sex Tips. So you want to try anal sex. That's great! Anal play can be lots of fun — if you're ready for it. Unlike other types of sex, which most people can fumble their way through when they don't have much experience, anal sex takes some research.
Preparing For Anal Play
Butt stuff is an entirely different type of play from oral and vaginal sex for many reasons. Those who love anal sex are often appreciative of its highly intimate nature and the unique sensation of fullness it gives the receiver. Having said that, butt stuff should be something you choose to do — not something you do to please anyone but yourself, and certainly not something anyone can be pushy or coercive about doing with you. Because everyone deserves to have a beautiful bum experience every time, here are seven tips that will help you prepare for and then enjoy yours. First things first: Figure out your safer-sex approach. Keep in mind that if you're not using a condom, anal sex is a higher-risk sex act , especially for the receiver.
Curious about the Pleasure Mechanics approach to anal play? This is simply one way to take care of yourself and your sexuality so you can enjoy the pleasures available to you. All of our courses teach explicit sex skills without pornography, so you can easily master new techniques in the comfort of your own home. All Pleasure Mechanics online courses are backed by a 30 day, no questions asked guarantee — so there is nothing to lose, and so much pleasure to gain! The external anal sphincter is one of the most sensitive places on the human body. You can enjoy huge amounts of anal pleasure without any penetration. The minimum preparation for enjoying external anal play is a regular bowel movement followed by complete external cleansing. Washing the external anal area with warm soap and water is often enough to allow you to feel at ease.