She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly. She probably doesn't even realize how crazy that is. I feel like now more than ever, I am expected to just not have an opinion about anything or even a say in how we spend our time together. I still struggle with the silence in contact or wanting to "rescue" him from the harried schedule.
You should want to keep things new and interesting, as you would in any relationship, while still allowing your date to maintain the standards of her faith. And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands. I feel a sense of freedom would come with it, but I am also afraid of what this could mean for us in the long run. Did U have sex with her yet. The church can be a very cruel place for single people. This girl is also a real person, not a caricature of a cult member, and even if the ultimate result is a breakup, she deserves to be treated with compassion and respect.
By the time you are done, you'll have all of the basics down and will have the framework to know what to ask next without any confusion. Do you see yourself being with him for many years. Forty plus years later I met my incredibly wonderful fabulous Mormon husband. Second, in my experience mormons have been some of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege to know, and they have not lived up to the cult image you describe. One small thing to add here. It has been closed.
I can't quite put my finger on it. NeverMo in CA Date: NeverMo in CA Wrote: I've read many of the stories here and I know the religion is toxic. And if he meets it's after calling him for the several time. If a direct contact is simply not possible given the residency schedule, then how about a bedtime phone call. That's just too high a price to pay. And after dating a few months we both knew we wanted to get married. If everything she is taught is correct and the Mormon church is "true" she should be able to research any anti-Mormon books or movies and prove their criticisms are lies.
